How to give MORE LOVE *4 ways*

One time last year I was driving on my bike to school. I was halfway, which meant that I was in the middle of the city where all the shops and cafes are. This time I heard someone cry. I looked to my left and saw that it was a man. It looked truly so sad, he looked so lost. He was screaming into the air. It felt like he was crying for help and no one helped him. It was kinda far away and I didn’t know what was going on so I did not walk up to him. Maybe I should have done that, but on the other hand he didn’t look mentally stable.. 

Back to the point. I have experienced times where I felt like crying for help. Thankfully I have always felt a light inside me and I knew that it was only temporary. I was 8 -ish when I felt like this and thankfully never felt like that man. I was surviving at that time. Because I know what this feels like, I am now able to live life more deeply.

We all look around and think everyone is happy just because they are smiling, but that’s not true in a lot of situations. 

Seeing that man so desperate made me realize how much pain there is in this world. Yes on Instagram you see women laying almost naked on the beach with cocktails and men working out in the gym with almost 10 packs. But that is not always reality. Everyone sometimes feels pain, that’s reality. It’s a pleasure and a pain. Yes the ideal situation is only pleasure, but as of right now that’s not the reality on planet earth. 

Children are raped by pedophiles -think of Epstein- and people ACT that they are suprised -think of Naomi Cambell and so many others – when they in fact KNEW about it. Children are killed for their bones because people in Africa and other places believe in stupid false stories that this will give them power. How can this be our reality? What and where did it go wrong? Or has it always been this way? I can’t just watch while children have to go through these horrible experiences. 

One thing that I try to do more is spread love. I think it all starts with love. Instead of these ‘fear glasses’ put on those ‘love glasses’. Here I give them to you. It’s up to you if you take them from me or you continue to live in a false reality that’s full of fear.

Here I will give you some things that you can do with those ‘love glasses’ on. I really hope that this article inspires you to give more love to yourself and other human beings.

Fear brings you nowhere, love brings you to God, the Universe or whatever bigger thing or source you believe in. You can also just believe in yourself, maybe that’s the most important thing, believing in your own powers and magic! 

1. USE YOUR MOUTH

So what I mean with this is to tell others more that you love them. You can literally say: “I love you”, however you may not feel comfortable saying this to a colleague. Well good news for you because you can say something else too. You can say you love their shoes or their backpack. 

When I get comments that people enjoy reading my blog post it makes me very happy. It truly does!

It’s crazy to imagine that people take time off their day to make my day a little (or much) better. It’s so simple but it makes you smile for the rest of the day. 

Be like one of those commenters! Tell someone you like how they never give up. Also… When someone tells me I look beautiful I am like “thank you so much”. However when someone comments on a skill of mine or something that’s “on the inside” it makes me feel very empowered. I think you could say I value those compliments a little more. 

2. USE YOUR BODY 

Of course your mouth is also part of your body, but I mean it a little different. You could technically use your mouth but I am not talking about that… right now 😉 . Now I am speaking about using your body as in hugging people. Some may not be too comfortable with hugging people, but you need to get over this. (Just like me 🙂 ) We need physical contact!  When you are talking to someone, touch their shoulder or just sit a little closer.

Important to note that the goal is to make them feel loved, not creeped out!

3. GIVE SOMEONE PHYSICAL THINGS 

“a.k.a presents“

It’s always nice to get something from someone. That’s one of the few reasons I like my birthday, besides that I get to bake a cake. It’s nice to open those presents and be surprised by what’s inside. The fact that people care makes your heart warm. Give others this feeling! 

You don’t need to give them a Louis Vouiton bag, you will only make the ego happy. Make someone’s soul happy by giving them something personal. Something you spend time and energy on, not just money. You can write someone a cart or a bracelet you made yourself. 

4. EMBODY THE VIRGO IN YOU

Some may not know this but Virgo is stereotyped as the helper in astrology. Whether you believe this to be true or not. Anyone can embody this energy or persona archetype. You can do this too by helping someone out. Is someone moving? Offer them your help, even if that person is not a close friend, it could become a close friend. You don’t need to get anything out of it, just the fact that you helped someone will give you fulfillment. Besides humans, you can also help animals. I sometimes help animals cross the street and that’s the inner ‘Virgo moon’ in me. 

HI, FRIEND

Sooo… here it is, a little story about love for you guys today. I hope that this inspired you to share more love with others. What you need to remember is that love should come from a pure place, otherwise it’s not love “duhh”. If you have no love inside of you, you can’t share. The first step into helping the earth is by starting to love yourself. Not just your beautiful hair, also your talents, your EVERYTHINGGG!! And then.. then you can share this… and then… life will be so much better for anyone around you!! 

Let me know in the comments how you share love with others, I love hearing from you guys <3

Let today or tonight be an enlightening time and may you connect with nature. Take a deep breath and get in touch with your energy. Just be in this moment!

You can leave your name and email below, if you want to stay in contact with me. And if not, I hope you will have an amazing life full of love and joy!

May our souls meet again!

-xx- Nella