DAILY HABITS OF A HIGH VALUE WOMEN

~ A high value women takes care of her body, because she understands that it is her temple. How can you create magic, if you live inside of a cave? 

M. NELLA

Ready to change your life and become the high value women of your dreams? Then this article is just for you. Continue reading and let me give you that little push. 

In my other blog post I wrote about how you can become a high value woman. Today we’re going to talk about the habits of high value women. 

It’s important to note that everyone’s version of a high value woman will look different. Therefore, these habits are very general. I hope that these daily habits will help you align with your dream self. May your dream reality come true!

Maybe you see a high value woman as someone who owns her own business. Or someone who is the best mother for her child. Whatever your version is, it requires discipline. You won’t become that version in one day. It takes years of dedication and growth to be were you want to be. 

This doesn’t mean that you should become sad that it will take you this long. Because this is not true, if we tell ourselves we have 10 years to do things, it will take 10 years. When in reality, we could do that in 1 year with a lot of focus. However, I do believe that life is a period of consistent growth and exploring. 

When I die I want to live in my dream life. Right now, that vision will be different then in 10 years. That’s also part of life, we grow and learn along the path. In the end, we want to die in peace. To me peace is when I feel accomplished. So I am going to make sure that I work hard for my goals and be thankful everyday for what I have. 

How does a high value women look like to you?

SATURN’S ENERGY

We try to fit into the system we were born in. We want to follow the rhythms of money and time. Where there is the most money, we go there as if we are flies. A high value woman says no to that idea. No more following others, following egoistic desires, no more! If you want to be the highest version of yourself, you cannot afford to spend your energy on these short term things. They may give you quick dopamine, but in the long term, you will not be that high value woman. 

If we keep trying to fit into systems and rhythms that don’t benefit us, we will never be high value women. At least not how I see a high value woman. A high value woman to me is someone who doesn’t follow the rules, she makes them. She values her morals and follows them religiously! That’s her religion, not something external, no she worships the powers within her. 

Saturn’s energy plays a huge role in rhythms and systems in this world. She rules over time and money. These rhythms can work against you, think of satan. However, they can also for you, you will be empowered by Saturn. This can only happen if you reclaim your power. You use Saturn’s energy and create rhythms and routines that align with the dream version of you. You wake up and the first thing you do is drink some water and go for a run, for example.

We need to tap into the powers of ourselves, we all have them inside of us. Reclaim your powers and use them to uplift yourself and others. This will make you a high value woman! 

Mind you that I use Saturn as a methaphor, don’t take things too literally. 😉

1. HAVE HOBBIES & PASSIONS

I think no matter how a high value woman looks to you, she needs to have hobbies and passions. Having hobbies makes life so much better. First of all, it makes you more recognizable. People will say this “Did you know [your name] does that? You could ask her for advice.” This will help you to connect with people that need your service or will like minded people.

I can’t imagine living a life in which I don’t enjoy photographing. Everywhere I go, I look for nice angles and good lighting to make photos, whether that is of me or nature. It adds so much fun to my life. 

I also want to tell you guys that it is never too late to start a new hobby! Some tv stars only started doing what they are doing when they were in their 30s. Now they are super successful at what they are doing. 

I started this blog purely to express myself in a creative way, I never thought that I could reach thousands of people a month. And yet here I am. You can do that too, start a blog or ride a motorcycle! Don’t tell yourself you are too old or this doesn’t fit you. Just go for it! 

2. GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORTZONE 

Some time ago, I wanted to do something new. I always focused a lot on school and I thought it would be nice to do something different. Furthermore, I like living in my city, but I am also someone who likes to see new places and go on adventures. 

Basically, I wanted to visit a new city. Every time I wanted to do this, something came up. First a lockdown, then only with a QR code you could use the bathroom. I don’t need food, I will bring my own, but I need to go to the toilet, since it’s illegal to do it against a tree.

Then the time came I finally would be accepted by stores and restaurants. I had never gone alone to another big city without goal. But in the end I did it. This may sound a bit silly, but to me it was a big step, since I had never gone alone to another city without a goal. Just hop on the train and see were the wind will bring you. 

I am telling you to do this too. What is something you have wanted to do for some time now? Go do that! What do you need? Make sure you have that. Plan everything and just go!

3.EAT HEALTHY

A queen takes care of her body, because she understands that it is her temple. How can you create magic, if you live inside of a cave? 

A high value woman understands that if she wants to feel good, she needs to eat good. As a result of feeling good in her body, she feels energized. Energized to work hard for what she wants and to believe in herself. 

In another blog post I will talk more about how to level up metally and how habits can help you with that. You can read this blog post here.

4. GIVE COMPLIMENTS

A high value woman understands that she can’t do it on her own. If she wants to be the best version of herself, she needs to uplift others. This will give her and the other a good feeling. A high value woman doesn’t see others as competition but as inspiration. She looks at others and thinks about how unique that person is. Then she shares these thoughts and gives compliments. 

If everyone would give more compliments the world would be more beautiful. I have to be honest, I am not the best person when it comes to giving compliments. I find it hard to tell others these compliments, this is something I want to learn. My version of a high value woman shares her thoughts and is not afraid to tell strangers they look great. This year I want to focus on giving more compliments to others.

5. WISE SOCIAL MEDIA USE

When you scroll on Instagram, do you feel alive? I certainly don’t! So why are so many people wasting so much time on social media? Because they are addicted. 

Instagram is not real,

Pinterest is fake,

Youtube is an illusion

and even this website doesn’t exist as something physical.

Realize that all these platforms are not truly part of life, they shouldn’t take up your whole life. Have a real life outside of these social media platforms! Dance, have hobbies, don’t let social media block your potential.

Explore the real world, make real connections. And I know it can be hard to find that feeling of being alive, when you see others always on their phone. However, you can tap into that vibration! Just be yourself, be crazy and do whatever you want to do! That’s life, not looking nice in a picture. 

You use social media, you use it to inspire others! Social media does not use you, it doesn’t block your power. No! You are a high value women and you will use your powers! Don’t let the system get you down (remember that song- big city life) 🙂

6.MOVE THE BODY EVERYDAY

I think one of the ways to feel more alive is to move your body! When you move your body you will connect more with it and this will bring your awareness to the present. A high value woman understands the powers of being present. You cannot be the woman of your dreams if you are not aware of the reality you live in.

Turn up the speakers and dance to your favorite music! Feel your body get energized by the uplifting music and let your body move the way you want to. I personally like to listen to hardstyle when I want to feel alive and motivated to get things done. Just listen a lot to it and you will see the magic in it. 

It’s just like life, just experience it a lot and you will start to see the magic. Life is magical, just like you. Embody that energy and let today be a-ma-zing!

7. MINDFULNESS

Because, a high value woman understands the powers of her mind. Just like Saturn, it can work against you or for you. If you don’t use your mind, then I have to tell you something. Your mind is using you and it’s not benefiting you! So please start to see the powers of this world. Then see the true powers inside of you, in your mind and start to use them. 

Trick your mind into doing things for the long term instead of some quick dopamine. Let go of the limiting beliefs and start to believe in your potential and your qualities. Change the stories so that they align with your desired reality! A reality in which you are the high value woman!

HI, QUEEN

Wanna learn more about how to become a high value women? Read my other blogpost about this subject here <3

On this site I have more information about the Planets. I think finding out your dominant planet will help you become more authentic and will make it easier to follow your soul purpose. To find out your dominant planet you can take this quiz.

Let today or tonight be an enlightening time and may you connect with nature. Take a deep breath and get in touch with your energy. Just be in this moment!

You can leave your name and email below, if you want to stay in contact with me. And if not, I hope you will have an amazing life full of love and joy!

May our souls meet again!

-xx- Nella

LET'S STAY IN TOUCH!

Leave a Reply

LET'S BECOME SOULSISTERSOR BROTHERS

I am M. Nella and the owner of this website: by M. NELLA. My name means light and that’s also what I want to see more in this world.

It’s about finding your voice and taking your power back, then use this power to spread light into the world. With this website I want to help you find your light, your strengts.