~ Do you feel that too when you are around some women? These women have an energy that makes you feel good in their presence. They exude feminine energy and you can have this too!


Do you feel that too when you are around some women? These women have an energy that makes you feel good in their presence. They exude sensual energy, they embody their femininity.

What is their secret that makes them so desirable? It’s their energy. They are connected to their body and energy.

Let’s talk a bit about your senses. When you touch something, an electric neuron is sent to your brain. As a result we get a pleasant and rewarding feeling when someone hugs us according to Brainfacts. Thanks to these energetic neurons, we can feel and sense things.

Your senses are related to energy, on a physical but also on a spiritual level. Spirit is the Divine Energy that is in each one of us. Some are more connected to it than others, however in the end everyone can tune into this energy form.

A feminine person is very connected to her energy. Moreover she is connected to her body. She can feel energy with her body and she can express energy through her body. This makes her a very sensual being.

Someone who embodies her feminine energy exudes a sensual energy. She is able to exude this because she is connected to her body. With her body she can experience the moment she is in and she can feel the energy surrounding her.

Everyone can connect with his or her feminine energy. Yes, you too. Healthy Feminine Energy is something everyone can awaken in them, because everyone is connected to the Divine.

It can be hard to start embodying this energy. That’s why I have listed y ways that will help you embody your sensuality and femininity.  

1. Self Care

This one is kind of basic, but it’s sooo important! If you don’t take care of  yourself, then how can you love yourself? Love every single part of yourself. Love your strength and softness , love your mind, love your soul, love spirit.

Let loving energy flow through you and exude this energy. Not only you will pick up on this energy, others will feel it too. They will feel how connected you are with yourself. Your aura speaks for itself.

It’s important to note that accepting and embracing yourself is a life long journey full of lessons. You have never embraced every single part of yourself because we constantly change, new experiences will help us grow. We aren’t the same person we were yesterday. Everyday we learn new things about ourselves and we learn to love them.

2. Connect With your Body

As I have said before, conecting with your body can help you get in tune with feminine energy. Therefore to exude a feminine aura, we have to accept and love our body. When we do this, we will gain confidence and it will show. Others may not see it consciously, but they definitely pick up on this subconsciously.

Your confidence is that cherry on the cupcake. It’s what makes it complete. You are the Queen of your destiny, own it!

People may tell you you are ugly or make other stupid comments. But that’s not true, I have never seen an ‘ugly human being’. Every human is beautiful and shines in her own way. What I do see is humans with an hateful attitude, these are the same people that make these comments. Don’t let them fool you, you are a beauty!

Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful. Those scars don’t make you ugly, they make you unique. Everyone has fat, so don’t judge yourself for having this human characteristic. Whether you are small of big, you are of importance and perfect the way you are!

3. Smell Like Flowers

It’s all about awakening the sense right. Smelling great makes you very attractive. Without having to touch or even see you, they can sense your presence. This sounds like a mysterious and fascinating women to me.

You can use parfum, but even better is it to use essential oils. That’s because there are a lot of toxins in parfum. On the internet you can find tons of articles on how to make your own parfum. And… it’s cheaper!

4. Exotic Dance (or dancing in general)

Some people may label it a slutty. However, I don’t agree with this bias. I think exotic dance is a beautiful art that connects you to your sensual energy.

Sensual or feminine energy is not slutty or only for hoes. Sensual energy is pure and connects you with Spirit. Others may try to demonize the power feminine energy has, but that doesn’t change the fact that it can empower you.

Awaken all your sensual energy with an exotic dance and feel yourself become empowered by your feminine energy. Dance to the rhythm of the music and enjoy the moment.

5. Wearing Lingerie

Lingerie makes you feel like a badass princess right? And a powerful one! Wear lingerie in which you feel empowered, wear your favourite colours.

Lingerie looks so good on everyone, no matter your body type. It makes a women feel sensual and sexual. Wearing lingerie will make you feel good about yourself, you will awaken your feminine energy with it. Let that inner QUEEN out!

6. Appreciate Yourself

It’s really important to accept yourself the way you are. You are beautiful and amazing! Your freckles are cute, even though you may tell yourself otherwise. If you do this, stop doing it. Talking negatively about yourself is not going to benefit you in life. Loving yourself will. Self love will increase your feminine energy.

Don’t just show gratitude to the universe! Showing gratitude to yourself is maybe even more important!

7. Body Language

In todays society we are very much focused on productivity, everything must be done fast. But exactly this is blocking your feminine energy. Nowadays, the media tells us constantly to do things. Do this, if not for yourself, then do it for others. But you know what… Sometimes you just have to be. Be in tune with yourself, be present.

You may think: “What has body language to do with this.” Well when we constantly want to do things we awaken the masculine in us, this is very essential in daily life. However the soul seeks to be. So when we ignore this desire, we are less in tune with our spirituality. Moreover we reject our soul/Spirit by doing this.

Your body language tells you in which stage you are. The masculine do stage or the feminine be stage. To have a healthy body, mind and soul you need to  balance the two.

If you are doing things as fast as possible you are in your masculine do stage. For most people this is their dominant stage and for some this is their constant stage.

Try to be more in your feminine be stage. Do things slower with more presence. Live in the moment with your body, mind and soul. When awareness is on all these three aspects, the Spirit energy is activated. In return this will awaken your sensual energy.

To summarize this, move your body slower and be more present. This will give you an erotic and feminine aura.

Hey princess,

Thank you for reading this blog post about habits that will help you exude feminine energy. I wish you the best on your self development journey. May this blog post enhance your life in a spiritual, mental and physical way.

Let today or tonight be an enlightening time and may you connect with nature. Take a deep breath and get in touch with your energy. Just be in this moment!

You can leave your name and email below, if you want to stay in contact with me. And if not, I hope you will have an amazing life full of love and joy!

May our souls meet again!

-xx- Nella

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I am M. Nella and the owner of this website: by M. NELLA. My name means light and that’s also what I want to see more in this world.

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